Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Paul Randle-Jolliffe Safe & Well -
I would like to thank each and every one of you for coming together, united as one, in the search for Paul Randle-Jilliffe. I have been informed that he is safe & well, enjoying some family time with his son.
With that, I cannot help but reflect on how much I too treasure good quality time with my precious daughter. Children grow up so fast, and in a blink of an eye they are making a family of their own.
The first few years in a child's life is vital to how well they will develop, patterns of behaviour they display, attachments they will form, and if they will be able to maintain healthy friendships or relationships. I cannot forget to emphasise the possibility of developing a borderline "personality disorder" due to surviving traumas from their childhood: be it through either harm, neglect, or abuse:Or even the occurrence of a small child suffering maternal/ paternal separation anxiety, abandonment issues, insecurities, and social inadequacies triggered by the premature, unnecessary and unlawful removal of children from their safe and loving homes.
It is quite refreshing, however, to see the alliance that we showed one-another at a time of need. In particular the dedication towards a cause. It's times like these that hope gets reignited and it seems a lot more realistic that we will be able make a difference and move forward towards our common goal for Justice and Accountability, where appropriate.
With acts of humanity such as those displayed earlier, it does not appear as unrealistic to forecast a future by which policies and procedures can be followed, Human Rights will not be violated and children will not suffer the abuse of unnecessarily taken from safe, loving homes to meet target platforms or to smooth over Special Measures sanctioned for failing bench-mark standards. (Please do not mistake that example as an attack as, I am merely illustrating a situation which occurs )
* NO!!! Children should not suffer at the hand's of their carer's, be it a relative or a nominated guardian.
* NO!!! There should not be any deaths of children of any age - regardless of whether or not the Authorities are aware of the situation.
It is all to easy to sit back on the sidelines and complain about how we have a terminal problem within Social Services and society as a whole, but that does not help the situation - And it definitely does not help the children!
WE NEED TO ADDRESS THE PROBLEMS INDIVIDUALLY AND TACKLE THEM WITH SOLUTIONS instead of complaining how bad things are and how much worse they are getting.
Given this, I would like to revisit a Post that was submitted on a Facebook group...in reference to taking a stand and making a change for the better - UNITED AS ONE
Ultimately we, as a society, have to also unite with the Local Authority and WORK TOGETHER for the sake of the children.
The only way possible would be for total transparency, with no lies, deceit, or hidden agenda. Complete compliance on both parts, adherence to directions and court orders, and the ability to change/ regroup from our initial plan when circumstances permit.
THERE NEEDS TO BE A WORKING RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT TRICKS OR ULTERIOR MOTIVES
Many speculate how "independent" the individuals can be without speculating a "conspiracy theory" - and some have rightfully concluded such events. Unfortunately, one bad seed can tarnish other's and the one of the only ways to syphon out the "rogue" workers to CLEAN HOUSE from the ground up.
Another "pipe dream" would be to change the way Family Court operates - so it is the same as the Criminal Division.
I know it is easy to think that hell will freeze over before any of that could possibly happen - and given the experiences some of you had, I totally understand. Nothing will happen overnight, but not every- one is against you and believing that is the first step.
If you have a job to do - be it as a Parent, guardian or government employee; there's only one way to do it - THE RIGHT WAY!
On that note, from what I observed this morning, I can, without hesitation, say we all showed the dedication necessary to move forth towards Justice for Families and Children alike -
* in making changes:
...For the better...
...For the better...
...For our children,...
...Because, of course,
"EVERY CHILD MATTERS"
THANK YOU ALL
RETRACTED - FOUND SAFE AND WELL
I RECEIVED NOTICE THAT PAUL RANDLE-JOLLIFFE IS MISSING. If you have seen him please let him know people are concerned. Paul - If you jsut had to get out of dodge, please check in---many are worried.
Monday, December 27, 2010
Sunday, December 26, 2010
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Child protection: MPs must act on the scandal of seized children – Telegraph
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Another Child Stolen By the State – how many more are we going to stand by and watch? – David Icke Website
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Adoption and Children Act 2002
Adoption and Children Act 2002: "
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Adoption and Children Act 2002.
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Walk a mile in my shoes…
Walk a mile in my shoes…: "
One year ago today my life changed forever. On this fateful day, in 2009, I had a terrifying accident that would consequently affect all those around me, including my then 8 week old precious Angel.
While amidst a heated “conversation” with my mum about my daughter’s future, and where I could provide the best upbringing for Angel, I thoughtlessly perched myself on her bedroom window sill. Not paying attention, I leaned back to rest against the window, only to find that it was not closed properly. Out of sheer desperation, to prevent myself from hurtling to the ground, I grabbed hold of the curtains – yanking them off their rails.
As the laws of gravity went into motion, I fell backwards then PLUMMETED APPROXIMATELY 20′ ONTO THE PATIO BENEATH…
When I finally awoke, I was naturally confused and disoriented. I could remember being at my parent’s house, then shivering momentarily as I entered the dark abyss of an unconscious mind. As my cognitive awareness began to re-engage I immediately became distraught, and fretful for the whereabouts and safety of my precious daughter, Angel. It was then that I went to brush the hair away from my face, only to find that i was PARALYZED FROM THE NECK DOWN. My whole world collapsed in an instant, like a supernova imploding to form a black hole. My screams must have resonated through the hospital.
I then became overwhelmed by confusion and consumed with fear as I realized that I now lay hospital, unaware of how long I had already been admitted for. My thoughts and delirium were further enhanced by the morphine which I could see being administered intravenously.
A few days later I developed the sensation of pins and needles in the tips of my fingers and, a couple of days after that, I also experienced tiny, sporadic muscle spasms in the same area. Once my assessments were analyzed the doctor came to discuss the results with me. Thinking the worst was over, I was absolutely devastated to hear that I had a HAIRLINE FRACTURE IN MY SKULL & I had also BROKEN FOUR (4) <out of five (5)> LUMBAR VERTEBRAE
He then went on to advise me that I would most probably NEVER WALK AGAIN.
At that moment time stood still, just waiting to exhale or merely “wake up” from this nightmare.
AS THE TEARS ROLLED DOWN MY CHEEKS, I WASN’T EVEN ABLE TO WIPE THEM OFF MY FACE *
A year on, I can happily say that I am walking again. After enduring intense physiotherapy and orthopaedic treatment and, through pure determination with an occurrence of divine intervention, my legs are working once again……
Filed under: Cafcass, causes, Family Proceedings/, forced adoption, legal kidnapping, Life Style, Local Authority, Uncategorized Tagged: Causes, Forced adoption, Legal Kidnapping, Lifestyle, Local authority, social Services, Uncategorized
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One year ago today my life changed forever. On this fateful day, in 2009, I had a terrifying accident that would consequently affect all those around me, including my then 8 week old precious Angel.
While amidst a heated “conversation” with my mum about my daughter’s future, and where I could provide the best upbringing for Angel, I thoughtlessly perched myself on her bedroom window sill. Not paying attention, I leaned back to rest against the window, only to find that it was not closed properly. Out of sheer desperation, to prevent myself from hurtling to the ground, I grabbed hold of the curtains – yanking them off their rails.
As the laws of gravity went into motion, I fell backwards then PLUMMETED APPROXIMATELY 20′ ONTO THE PATIO BENEATH…
When I finally awoke, I was naturally confused and disoriented. I could remember being at my parent’s house, then shivering momentarily as I entered the dark abyss of an unconscious mind. As my cognitive awareness began to re-engage I immediately became distraught, and fretful for the whereabouts and safety of my precious daughter, Angel. It was then that I went to brush the hair away from my face, only to find that i was PARALYZED FROM THE NECK DOWN. My whole world collapsed in an instant, like a supernova imploding to form a black hole. My screams must have resonated through the hospital.
I then became overwhelmed by confusion and consumed with fear as I realized that I now lay hospital, unaware of how long I had already been admitted for. My thoughts and delirium were further enhanced by the morphine which I could see being administered intravenously.
A few days later I developed the sensation of pins and needles in the tips of my fingers and, a couple of days after that, I also experienced tiny, sporadic muscle spasms in the same area. Once my assessments were analyzed the doctor came to discuss the results with me. Thinking the worst was over, I was absolutely devastated to hear that I had a HAIRLINE FRACTURE IN MY SKULL & I had also BROKEN FOUR (4) <out of five (5)> LUMBAR VERTEBRAE
He then went on to advise me that I would most probably NEVER WALK AGAIN.
At that moment time stood still, just waiting to exhale or merely “wake up” from this nightmare.
AS THE TEARS ROLLED DOWN MY CHEEKS, I WASN’T EVEN ABLE TO WIPE THEM OFF MY FACE *
A year on, I can happily say that I am walking again. After enduring intense physiotherapy and orthopaedic treatment and, through pure determination with an occurrence of divine intervention, my legs are working once again……
Frozen in time…Taken the day I was released from Hospital. Still unable to walk, I was so thankful to be able to hold Angel again. I had not seen her since the accident almost four (4) weeks prior
- Unbeknown to me, the physical challenge I had to conquer was only the beginning as I was about to embark in the toughest fight of my life…FOR MY DAUGHTER’S LIFE
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